The year 2020 marks the 100th anniversary of the 19th Amendment granting women the right to vote. On Wednesday JAN-15-20, Millbrook at Home had the pleasure of hosting Bill Jeffway, a member of the Historical Society during our monthly Coffee & Connections event. Dutchess County Historical Society’s Executive Director Bill Jeffway highlighted Women’s Voices and Talents in Duchess County, and role of Lucrettia Coffin Mott. His presentation delves into the history of Women’s Suffrage in the Mid-Hudson Valley.
According to Mr.Jeffway, it has never been only a man’s world because women have always had a significant role in this country’s history. Mr. Jeffway’s presentation cited examples of women being allowed to vote in New York as early as the 1880s. This includes Union Vale electing Nancy Boyd Duncan as school district clerk. He also cited Vassar College as playing a significant role in the Suffrage movement in the early 1900s with Professor Laura J. Wylie heading up the Equal Suffrage League of Poughkeepsie.
Attendees were very happy and excited to hear all about Women’s Voices and Talents in Dutchess County and the event concluded with a Q&A session.
For Millbrook at Home’s First Friday Lunch we were fortunate enough to welcome Deanna Mancuso who is the founder of Lucky Orphans Horse Rescue, located in Dover. This horse rescue focuses on taking in horses who have been abused and neglected in their past lives and giving them a new forever home at Lucky Orphans where they can spend the rest of their lives. She came full of passion to talk about her life work and legacy regarding horses, the outreach they do with the horses, and how Lucky Orphans came to be.
Lucky Orphans Horse Rescue works with different at risk groups of people to help them heal and grow at any age. They work with juveniles, veterans, people struggling with emotional problems or substance abuse, and victims of domestic violence to name a few. Through therapy with the horses Deanna hopes to help heal both the traumatized horses that come into her care as well as the people that interact with these horses.
This was one of our largest crowds yet for our First Friday Lunch events and you could feel the energy in the room as Deanna spoke about her mission and what people can do to help out. Volunteers are always needed at Lucky Orphans Horse Rescue and there are a variety of opportunities to do that in areas such as:
● Stable / Horse Care
● Office Help
If this is a cause you are passionate about feel free to check out Lucky Orphans
Horse Rescue’s website for more information http://luckyorphanshorserescue.org/ or call at (845) 877-0685 to find out about what you can do to get involved with this non profit.
John Hummel, a community member, runs our local Meals on Wheels of Millbrook and Verbank out of Lyall Memorial Federated Church that services seniors in the area with low cost meals right to their door. Meals on Wheels provides a lunch and hot dinner to around 40 seniors in the area who may not have the ability to produce or prepare food on their own. Every week community members volunteer on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday to cook and assemble these lunches and then drivers, who are also volunteers, deliver the meals right to people’s doors.
Community volunteer groups like Meals on Wheels are essential in small spread out communities like Millbrook and surrounding areas in the rural Mid-Hudson Valley. These volunteer based organizations service people who are in need of more assistance in their day to day lives where making or procuring food might be difficult. The work these people do is incredibly rewarding and John Hummel feels that the most rewarding part for him is seeing the gratitude from people who receive these meals.
The number of residents they currently serve is at its limit so if you are interested in helping this Meals on Wheels group grow please call (845) 677-3485 to figure out if volunteering for this organization is something that works for you. Having more deliverers especially is needed if the Meals on Wheels program to grow its capacity of community members it is able to serve.
In June Millbrook at Home sponsored their second Coffee and Connections program at the parish Hall of St. Joseph’s Catholic Church. Once again the organization welcomed more than twenty community members to share refreshments and important information.
Brian Jones, Outreach Coordinator with the Dutchess County Office for the Aging, discussed different kinds of scams and how to protect yourself and your family. In 2019 about 50% of all phone calls are SCAMS! With this in mind, JUST HANG UP! If you pick up the phone and realize (or suspect) it is a scam don’t feel the need to say anything or even explain yourself. While phone scams are the most common, it is important to be on guard against other types of scams like social media, door-to-door, lottery, and dating scams. Never give out your personal or health information over the phone or internet, and be wary of offers that sound too good to be true.
In the month of March, Linda Hogan, the current board chair of Millbrook at Home, brought news about an award-winning program made available to Millbrook at Home by the Dutchess County Office For the Aging. The program, which started with 14 participants in April, is called “A Matter of Balance” and is designed to “help reduce the fear of falling and increase the activity levels of older adults who have concerns about falling.”
Taught by volunteer coaches over the course of eight weeks, “A Matter of Balance” teaches participants how to view falls as controllable, how to set realistic goals for exercise, and how to change the living environment to reduce fall risk factors.
Millbrook at Home began to advertise the program through its ever-growing email list and posters at the local libraries. In a short while, there was a waiting list to enroll into the program!
The group had been meeting at the Parish Hall of Grace Episcopal Church, and seemed to have established good bonds. Each class included readings, discussions, lectures, and exercise. The course materials that the participants of the program have been following cover a range of topics: from attitudes to falling and being outside, to assessing actual risks in the surrounding environment, and basic exercises that strengthen joints and help people balance more confidently.
Millbrook at Home expresses its gratitude to the invigorating leadership of Class Coaches Dottie and Nancy, Linda Hogan and the generosity of Grace Episcopal Church for donation of space.
If you are 50+ or are concerned about caring for an aging parent – this may be of interest
Some of us may have seen FRONTLINE’s report on renowned New Yorker writer and Boston surgeon Atul Gawande as he explores the relationships doctors have with patients who are nearing the end of life. In conjunction with Gawande’s new book, “Being Mortal,” the film explores how the medical profession can better help people navigate the final chapters of their lives with confidence, direction and purpose.
This radically different approach to aging and caring for seniors has spawned a movement from its Boston roots.
In May, I hosted a meeting of the local Millbrook clergy (from St. Joseph’s, Lyall Memorial, Grace Church and St. Peter’s) to hear from one of these local all-volunteer organizations “Rhinebeck at Home” with a membership of 110 people, committed to helping neighbors helping neighbors stay at home.
Our local clergy network wants to explore how this model might help the Millbrook area community plan ahead and our four local congregations might learn something from our friends in Rhinebeck.
We held a panel meeting on Thursday September 7th at Grace Church in Millbrook. Thirty people were able to hear from Nina Lynch and Anne Brueckner on how Rhinebeck at Home began and the kinds of services provided. A Steering Committee was formed and we are gathering information on existing resources and creating a short survey for the Town of Washington.
We have been invited to join Rhinebeck at Home on on September 25th to watch their national annual meeting of the movement via teleconference with Atul Gawande as the keynote speaker. This is another opportunity to understand this emerging model and adapt it to local needs in the Millbrook community. Seats are limited so RSVP today to firstname.lastname@example.org and arrange transportation.
What we can learn from the Aging-in-Place concept
Rhinebeck at Home joins over 200 existing “aging in place” villages and another 100+ villages that are in development. We are a part of the Village to Village Network (VtV), a national peer-to-peer network that helps establish and continuously improve management of villages, whether in large metropolitan areas, rural towns or suburban settings. The mission of VtV is to enable communities to establish and effectively manage aging in community organizations initiated and inspired by their members. Villages that are part of VtV are membership-driven, grass-roots organizations, and are typically run by some staff and many volunteers. To learn more about Village to Village, visit their website http://www.vtvnetwork.org.
Neighbors Helping Neighbors Stay Independent at Home:
Rhinebeck at Home is dedicated to helping our members remain in their homes and stay connected within our community as we grow older
Members share a common concern that we may need assistance, now or in the future, to maintain a fulfilling life
Rhinebeck at Home encourages and coordinates the efforts of our members to give and receive support
Members help members in some of the following ways:
Providing referrals to other community service organizations
Offering social activities
Helping each other do things
Sharing member-recommended service provider referrals
You can read more about Rhinebeck at Home on their website rhinebeckathome.org. If you are interested in being part of this emerging network, please send us your e mail address here for our monthly updates:
The October edition will have more details on existing local resources and an invitation to attend a community forum to discuss the future use of the Thorne Building in Millbrook on October 10th at 7 p.m. in the Firehouse. Senior needs are obviously part of the conversation, so please join us today.
Rev. Canon Albert J. Ogle, Vicar of St. Peter’s Lithgow